2010 - What are the options?

Improvement or deterioration those are your life options. There is not such thing as middle ground, if one stops improving and developing the better you, thinking that you have reached your "status quo", I suggest to think again and think hard, I guarantee dissatisfaction at one time again in life, specially if you know yourself that your are "a restless spirit, outgoing, proactive", maybe one can fool oneself that all is fine and this is as good as it gets and God knows I know it first hand. Sooner or later the feeling of lack of personal accomplishment will creep inside the mind, worst yet the heart.

My own nature then only allows me improvement, the times I got stagnant meant I gave consciously or unconsciously the power of me to other things or persons looking for validation. Life has a way of putting you back on track if you see the signs and allow the changing forces direct you. Main words here are: letting go! The more you practice self restrain into not holding on to unfavorable situations that put you to doubt about all of who you are, although freaking painful it gives you back your empowerment, the motor that ignites the fuel of your spirit and that takes you to further improvement.

We all have life chains, results of fulfilling dreams, visible ones that carry responsibility like our children. They in due time will disappear when they rise into their own personal journey. Other chains were imposed to us by our own upbringing, our character, our experiences and circumstances, their invisible force tide us up to fear, but remember, fear and uncertainty are not funny friends but they are a necessary acquaintance of deep progressive thought and action. Working around our visible loved responsibility chains can be done if you are willing to try, overcoming the invisible chains is a result of understanding that you own the freedom to CHANGE and ENTITLEMENT to dream, be more, be better, and be happier no matter where you stand now in your life.

Be kind to yourself then but don't be protective that is the lesson. The world is for grabs for those who dare to work hard for their ideas and dreams whatever they are. Your life is full of challenges and equally is full of amazing possibilities and the constant door of opportunity faces every single minute of your life. Take a pause to breathe and regain strength if you hurt but never ever give up, because What matters that you were not loved or appreciated by those who live always standing behind the edge of the cliff of life? They are not a worthy challenge to surrender to.

I have my words, they are my companion, they are my thoughts as much as My Spirit. They are my heart that beats hard and strong telling me You are beautiful because your intentions remain true, vivid and grand! You haven’t give in and they whisper:

Just like life itself you are still happening!